Love tips for Nigerian women

Dear ladies, don’t let anyone stampede you into a bad relationship.

Don’t let anyone play with your heart.

Love yourself enough to be happy alone.

Loneliness is better than feeling alone in a relationship.

Don’t lose yourself trying to find love.

Live your life. Learn something. Go for a course. Start a new business.

Go out with friends. Relax. Enjoy your life. Don’t send wrong signals through desperation.

When your man shows up, you will be ready for him too.

You will also know when it’s real. You don’t need to play games to make him notice you.

Love is not complicated, human beings are.

Love doesn’t hurt, people who don’t know how to love hurt others.

Someone who loves you will give their all to you and not take everything that makes you unique from you.

Someone who loves you won’t demand that you stop being yourself so that they can remain with you.

Someone who loves you won’t demand that you play small so that they can feel good about themselves.

Someone who loves you will respect you and not take you for granted.

Someone who loves you won’t expose you to external attacks nor watch others tear you down without doing anything.

Someone who loves you won’t make you fight others for their love and attention.

A real man will not try to change, shut up or control his woman.

He doesn’t see her as a threat but as a companion.

A matured man wants his woman to be just as strong and tactically outspoken like him.

He won’t bring her down with his words.

He encourages her to have a mind of her own because he knows his woman’s strength is a reflection of his own.

But a weak, insecure man is not comfortable around assertive women.

He feels intimidated by their brilliance and strength.

He goes for weak females because he needs to Lord it over them.

He feels good being the alpha by default.

From such men, flee.
They will reduce your self worth to zero.
Don’t punish yourself that way.

If you ever wish to fall in love and enjoy it,

Fall in love with someone who wants to know your favourite colour and just how you like your tea or coffee.

Fall in love with someone who loves the way you laugh and would do absolutely anything to hear it.

Fall in love with someone who puts their head on your chest just to hear your heartbeat.

Fall in love with someone who kisses you in public and is proud to show you off to anyone they know.

Fall in love with someone who makes you question why you were afraid to fall in love in the first place.

Fall in love with someone who would never want to hurt you or make you fight others for their attention.

Fall in love with someone who falls in love with your flaws and thinks you are perfect just the way you are.

Fall in love with someone who would genuinely care about your well-being and be interested in your growth as a person.

Fall in love with someone who will cheer you on, lift you when you fall and give you the strength to keep facing the world.

Fall in love with someone who knows you are the one they would love to wake up to each day.

Love is not wicked.
Love is not mean.
Love is not evil.
Love is not complicated.
Humans just complicate this love issue so much and then turn around to blame love.

Love is a beautiful thing. I know.

 

 

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman. I don't conform to societal stereotypes. I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world. Engage and be awakened.

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  1. queen says:

    This is beautiful

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