Being a good woman cannot keep a man by your side

Being a good woman cannot keep a man by your side.

No matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be good enough for a man who isn’t ready for a relationship.

You can’t keep a man by your side who clearly doesn’t want to be with you.

Trying to emotionally blackmail him into being in your life will eventually backfire.

Don’t say you are very pretty, he can’t resist you.

It may work for a while but it will eventually wear off and it won’t be pleasant.

Being pretty doesn’t keep a man.

Cooking for his ancestors can’t keep him by your side.

Washing all the clothes in his lineage will not keep him either.

Some ladies see the signs but choose to live a lie.

Being a good woman barely keeps a man.

Ask those who have gone down that road, they have tales to tell.

You can’t force love. Stop running from pillar to post claiming they broke your heart. They were not interested in you in the first place.

Stop all the schemes, lies and games.

It doesn’t pay in the long run.

Love is reciprocal.

The only thing that keeps a man is a man who wants to be kept.

Don’t overwhelm yourself trying to love someone who doesn’t appreciate your efforts.

Direct your energy to those people who value and appreciate you for who you are.

Love is not complicated, human beings are.

Love doesn’t hurt, people who don’t know how to love hurt others.

Someone who loves you will give their all to you and not take everything that makes you unique from you.

Someone who loves you won’t demand that you stop being yourself so that they can remain with you.

Someone who loves you won’t demand that you play small so that they can feel good about themselves.

Someone who loves you will respect you and not take you for granted.

Someone who loves you won’t expose you to external attacks nor watch others tear you down without doing anything.

Someone who loves you won’t make you fight others for their love and attention.

If you ever wish to fall in love and enjoy it,

Fall in love with someone who wants to know your favourite colour and just how you like your tea or coffee.

Fall in love with someone who loves the way you laugh and would do absolutely anything to hear it.

Fall in love with someone who puts their head on your chest just to hear your heartbeat.

Fall in love with someone who kisses you in public and is proud to show you off to anyone they know.

Fall in love with someone who makes you question why you were afraid to fall in love in the first place.

Fall in love with someone who would never want to hurt you or make you fight others for their attention.

Fall in love with someone who falls in love with your flaws and thinks you are perfect just the way you are.

Fall in love with someone who would genuinely care about your well-being and be interested in your growth as a person.

Fall in love with someone who will cheer you on, lift you when you fall and give you the strength to keep facing the world.

Fall in love with someone who knows you are the one they would love to wake up to each day.

Love is not wicked.

Love is not mean.

Love is not evil.

Love is not complicated.

Humans just complicate this love issue so much and then turn around to blame love.

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman. I don't conform to societal stereotypes. I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world. Engage and be awakened.

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1 Response

  1. queen says:

    Chai, you finished talk here. Washing for ancestors can’t keep a man.

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