This is why I stay away from women who love to suffer in relationships

It is sad that many women suffer over irresponsible and wicked men.

These women endure years of emotional, physical and psychological abuse while complaining to everyone.

I have listened to many women whine and lament about their relationships, yet they remain in them.

I have seen women robbed of their future by men they give their all to.

I know women whose self worth are constantly reduced by the men they love.

I know women whose dreams have been shattered by men they have sex with.

Yet these women claim that they have no choice but to remain with these men.

They claim that women have to suffer to build their homes even if they are being treated like animals.

They prefer to remain in terrible relationships so that society can accept them.

It’s like these women just love to suffer pains and betrayals.

They complain and whine, have more sex and sweat and then complain some more.

Some women love to suffer over wicked men

They run to you for advice whenever their men shatter their hearts and soul.

You pity them. You invest your time and emotions in their case. But they won’t leave these men.

When you tell them to stop tolerating abuse, they remind you that they are nothing without these men.

Then they proceed to call you names. They see you as their enemy and they start avoiding you.

They use your name to have make up sex with these men who keep unveiling their expertise by breaking their hearts time and time again.

And I wonder why these women keep complaining. I wonder the kind of pleasure they get from suffering and smiling.

One thing I have noticed is that these women don’t take responsibility for their choices and inactions.

They blame everyone but themselves for accepting to be treated less than they deserve.

They prefer to complain everywhere, from church to salon and then, do nothing afterwards.

It’s so easy to blame others for the chaos and drama in your life, but when you play the victim, you forfeit your power.

If you are not taking 100% responsibility for the outcomes in your life, you are lying to yourself.

If you must remain in a bad relationship, stay there and continue taking all the crap your man dishes out to you.

Suffer in peace and stop getting people entangled in your dysfunctional relationship.

Stop disturbing others with your tales of woes when you have no intention of changing things.

By the way, you must not suffer to be in a relationship or a marriage. That’s a warped mentality.

You must not suffer to keep your marriage. You are just in an unhealthy marriage.

You must not suffer to be loved, you are damaging your soul.

Dear women, stop it!


I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.

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