A man who doesn’t want to be with you won’t commit to your relationship

Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to commit to you, he will claim he has commitment issues.

Don’t allow any man waste your time with that senseless talk. A man is not a baby who doesn’t know what he wants from a woman.

This is just a phrase a man uses when he isn’t willing to commit to a woman he has no interest dating.

This is why you will only find out about his “commitment issues” after some form of sexual acts.

A man with genuine commitment issues should share it with the woman before anything goes down. He will tell her, he wants only sex and good times but no commitment.

But if he claims he has commitment issues after many rounds of sex, he just played with you. He doesn’t want to commit to you and the relationship.

I’m having commitment issues is just a statement that clearly lets a man tell you he has no interest in taking you serious and should you decide to stick, it’s at your own detriment whatever comes out of it.

You can’t force man to commit to you

It clearly means, ‘I don’t like you enough to commit to you but if you want some side fun, I’m down but hey, remember I have commitment issues so I can’t commit beyond sex.’

Every human being wants to be loved. We all have emotions and want to be loved. That’s the way the human mind is wired.

Women want to be wooed by men they admire and love. When a woman a man loves comes along, no force on earth would stop him from pursuing her.

He will do everything within his power to get her to love him and stay with him. He can also be a fool for her. He will commit to her wholeheartedly.

If a man tells you he has commitment issues, it’s a polite way of saying “I’m not interested in you”. Don’t be tempted to stick around to get him to come around to loving you.

Men do not need too much time to fall in love or decide what they want from a woman. A man knows your place in his life after a few meetings.

Love or attraction does not need convincing. When the woman he loves comes along, he can fall for her. He won’t need to be cajoled or pestered to commit to her.

Ladies, remember that commitment issues occur from men who don’t want to be with a woman but just want to string her along for as long as they can enjoy good sex.

Don’t waste your time forcing a guy with supposed commitment issues to commit to you. Don’t punish yourself that way because you want to be in a relationship.

If a man truly loves you, he will commit to you. You won’t need to remind him to commit to the relationship. Both of you will be on the same page.


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