10 reasons you shouldn’t chase a man

Dear lady, you should never chase a man who is not interested in you. Even though there may be obvious signs a guy wants you to chase him, you shouldn’t play such mind games especially if he’s not into you.

In our society, many people are under the impression that it is the men who are supposed to go out in pursuit of women who have captured their fancies, but there’s nothing wrong of a woman is the first person to shoot her shot when she’s interested in a guy.

There are some situations where a lady falls in love with a guy but he doesn’t pay any attention to her and doesn’t accept her feelings. Unfortunately, some of these young ladies forget their worth and start chasing this guy. That is a big mistake.

You should understand that no man is not worthy of your tears and suffering if he doesn’t love you as much as you love him. Here are 10 reasons why you should never chase a man again:

He may not necessarily be good for you

Sometimes, women crave men that are harmful for them. You should understand that the man you are chasing may not necessarily be good for you. You have to think about your life critically if you don’t want to break your own heart.

10 reasons you shouldn’t chase a man

You will hurt yourself

Young lady, you will never attract this guy following him like a dog craving for his attention. If you do that, he will toy with your heart. Your heart will suffer again and again. You should stop chasing him and see what happens.

Your self-esteem will take a downward spiral

The worst thing is that while you are chasing a man, your self-esteem is getting ruined. It is not surprising that when that man keeps rejecting you all the time, your self-confidence and self-esteem are the first things to suffer all the time.

You will miss out on other great relationships

While running after a man, you don’t even notice that your own life is passing you by. You are just ruining your chances of other romantic relationships. And when you finally meet a good guy who deserves you, you might not have any desire to enjoy a relationship with him.

You are offering yourself to someone who doesn’t deserve you

You offer this guy all your love but he’s not doing the same. He is playing with your feelings, and hurting your soul. This is not good for your mental health and wellbeing. Stop chasing him, if he cares, he will chase you.

He doesn’t want to be caught by you

When a guy wants to be with a girl, he will do everything possible to do it. However, if he doesn’t like you and doesn’t want to be with you, there is no need to waste your time running after him.

Your career might suffer because of this

Chasing a guy takes a lot of time, effort and your career might suffer. You just won’t have any desire or strength to achieve new goals. Besides, running after him means you are just wasting your time on a person who doesn’t simply deserve it.

You will exhaust yourself

If you are afraid that you will lose him, follow him everywhere, and monitor his social media accounts, you will become exhausted very soon. You will suffer from stress and anxiety all the time. This is how not to chase a man.

You might become a stalker

When a girl starts chasing a guy, she wants to know everything about him: what daily schedule he has, where he lives, what bar he visits every Friday, and so on. She literally becomes a stalker. She forgets about her own life and loved ones. Stop chasing him and he will come back.

When you catch him, is he really yours?

After expending energy and resources chasing him, will he really be yours? Sometimes, after going through all that stress, you might realize that this man is much worse than you thought. He might not even be your ideal man, so why put yourself in such a relationship?

Young ladies should remember that it is important to be happy alone. In many cases, when a woman chases a man, she thinks that her happiness and well-being depends on being with this man. It means that she is dependent on him to be happy and is unable to find happiness in her own self. So, ladies, stop chasing men. Love should be mutual.

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman. I don't conform to societal stereotypes. I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world. Engage and be awakened.

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