Ladies, do these things and you won’t be stranded after going on dates

Ladies, whenever a man invites you on a date even when you know bill is on him, it is in your best interest to have money in your purse before accepting his invitation. This is your back up plan against any eventuality. It is appalling to keep hearing about stranded girls around town after going on dates with toasters and boyfriends.

Hold your money to avoid stories that touch. This is because you can get to the venue and your date is running late. Some restaurants are not friendly when ladies just seat alone for a long time without buying anything. Their staff will politely inform you that their restaurant is not a waiting room. This can be very embarrassing.

Your date could be running late and ask that you to place order for whatever you like to eat and drink till he arrives. It is wise that you order what you can afford, something the money in your purse can afford should his arrival take like forever even after you are done eating. He might even not show up, what happens if you don’t have money to pay for your food or drinks?

You can pay for your drinks and choose to wait for your date or leave. Some men are known to be mischievous, they purposely invite ladies out on a date, make them incur expenses, while they have no intention of showing up. Your date can also run out of cash, because he didn’t know how expensive the restaurant where you are meeting is. It’s in your power to save the day if the need arises. It saves you from an embarrassing situation.

Pay your bill as you go on a date

Ladies, going to visit a man without cash because he invited you is not wise. Have what girls call ‘vex money’ on you even if he promised to pay for your fare on arrival. This is very important should he do anything you find insulting or not comfortable with.

At least, you can afford to get yourself back home safely, rather than stand and yell in anger but still foolishly ask him to pay your fare. Some of these men are not nice and they don’t play fair, they can choose to mess you up because they don’t know how to treat ladies with respect.

He likes you, asks you to be his woman, you turn him down severally but he didn’t back down, one day, you call him to join you and your girlfriends where you are hanging out in a bar somewhere. He arrives and within minutes of his arrival, the waiter brings a huge bill, you take a look at it and sexily hand the bill to him who just arrived. Ladies, you play too much.

A heartless guy with his senses intact will collect that bill from you, glance through it, tell the waiter to bring more rounds of drinks with enough chops as much as you can consume and even take away for everybody. He can request for a new bill to be brought. He will drink a couple of his own brand as well, excuse himself to quickly get cash from his car or the nearest ATM. He leaves and never returns, ignores your calls while having life time laugh. It is none of his business how you and your friends wriggle yourselves out of the huge debt.

You don’t want to date him, but you want to squander his money with your clique of hungry girls. Be reminded that some men are equal to the task, they will deal with you right, left and center. They are not ashamed to set you up. You will be the loser in the end because you will embarrass your self when you don’t have money to pay for the things you have consumed.

If a man asking you out and takes you to the supermarket, asks you to pick a few daily needs and out of greed you pick things you don’t need because you feel he’s a maga and you must collect your own share, you will meet one who will deal with you one day.

Some men are not ashamed to tell you right there and then to return all the items you have collected back to the shelves because you are shamelessly greedy and classless. They will walk out on you and drive off. He’s not a maga or a money miss road, he’s genuinely a gentle man who knows when he’s about to be scammed by an olodo.

Whenever you are invited out by a toaster or even someone you are dating, avoid the temptation of bringing your friends along, except he asks that you bring them with you. Ladies, stop going on dates and insisting your date buys take away food, drinks or gifts for your friends. If you must get something for your friends, it’s wise you spend your own money.

Ladies, stop tagging along when your friends are invited on a date, have some shame. Learn to turn down such tag along offers, if he insists, don’t get there and behave like you have never seen food and drinks all your life. When on a date, order and eat to your satisfaction. If you are not feeling hungry, do not order food just to take few scoops, leaving the rest to waste.

Don’t be quick to complain that whatever you are served is not tasty. Be polite to waiters. Respect yourself especially on money related issues. In all these, make your safety and shame a priority. Some men are not loyal, neither are they gentle nor nice. They enjoy disgracing and leaving girls stranded, don’t fall a victim.

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman. I don't conform to societal stereotypes. I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world. Engage and be awakened.

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