Let people love for whatever reason they want

Let people love for whatever reason they want. It is funny that some women think other women don’t have the right to love for money because they feel loving because of love is what every woman should do.

People should know that every woman cannot fall in love with a man for love alone. Some women love for money. Others love for security Others love to get away from family problems. Others love just to have someone in their lives.

So, women should be allowed to love for whatever reason they want. They shouldn’t be hounded by this society to do things in a particular way because that’s the way it has always been.

Read this rant below written by Joy Isi Bewaji and be awakened:

“I┬áthink women who have to categorically state all the time that they “date for love” or “suffered for love” and not money, are one of the most insecure bunch in human species – all the way back to homo erectus and homo neanderthalensis.

You are still pandering to patriarchy in 2019.

I am sorry for you.

Let people love for whatever reason they want

You are pathetic, really.

Love, my ass.

A smart woman is either with a man because she knows he has the potential to do great things OR he has done great things.

Hanging around an average AF bloke all because you want to prove to partriarchy and its cousins that you are a “good woman” will all come to naught.

Patriarchy still hates you. Duh!

You don’t get it, do you?

You are never going to win. Not in this society. Not in the eyes of partriarchy.

There’s absolutely nothing you do that will satiate patriarchy’s need to see you bend.

Let people love for whatever reason they want.

What’s your business, Mary Slessor?

I can’t understand this idea that your reasons are valid and the other woman’s aren’t.

You date for love, so what?

You are fornicating just like eveyone else.

If one woman decides to monetise her fornication, how is that your business???

All that love you claim to love, you are still full of hate for the woman who is, at this moment, in Paris living off a relationship she clearly entered because of money.

Do you really think you are happier than her?

Get out of here with your self-righteous, self-demeaning ass.

Lie to yourself that you don’t want a prada bag and a Tiffany Amber jewellery for Valentine’s day.

Lie and let thunder fire you!

Lie that you don’t want a trip to Europe.


Just shut up, please.

Go and wash your weave or som’tin.

You are smelling of zero self esteem. You need some money.

And how do you even come up with the idea that just because a woman is with a man who has money she doesn’t love him?

Why would we ever want to burden a poor man with love?


He has other things to worry about.

Top on the list is, let me see…


Bye, binsh.”

Written by Joy Isi Bewaji.



I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.

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1 Response

  1. Ebube says:

    Lol, bye binsh

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