No one has the right to invalidate your life struggles

No one has the right to invalidate your life’s struggles.

No one has the right to shut you up when you cry out for help.

No one has the right to tell you their life is harder than yours.

No one has the right to tell you to suck it up because others have worse experience.

No one has the right to tell you how to deal with your pain and struggle.

Hardships are not comparable. Pains are not comparable. Life is not a competition.

No one has the right to tell you to suck it in

Your struggles are real and legitimate just like that of other people.

You can’t deal with your pain listening to people who trivialize what you have been through.

You can’t overcome the things threatening to suffocate you when people are telling you to suck it in.

Everybody goes through pain. And you can’t heal pain overnight, so be patient with yourself.

Don’t let people who make your pain seem insignificant rob you of your resolve to heal and heal totally.

Your pain is legitimate. Your struggle is real. It takes time to rebuild your life, so give yourself time.

Don’t listen to people who tell you that you are taking too long to overcome your pain.

They are not the one living your life, you are. So ignore those silly people.

Take care of yourself. Deal with your pain and struggle the way you deem fit.

But make sure that you are done, you come back stronger, better and wiser.

Remember, life is not a competition. Don’t compare your journey to that of others.

Don’t compare your pain to that of other people. Stay on your lane. Live your life.

Just live. Live well. Live with optimism. Live with positivity. Live with wisdom. Live with hope.

Life is unpredictable but you are stronger than whatever life throws at you.


Woman. Journalist. Writer. Blogger. Non Conformist. Rebel. Daring. Creative. Amazing. Unstoppable.

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