The woman you are becoming won’t have time for games

The woman you are becoming won’t have time for little boys, games, constant lies, deceit, inconsistencies, broken promises, laziness and lack of ambition.

The woman you are becoming won’t give room for immature men who love to play games with women’s hearts. That woman won’t tolerate abuse and manipulations so that she can have a man in her life.

The woman you are becoming won’t continue making excuses for a man who is treating her badly because he believes he is doing her a favor. She won’t blame herself for a man’s abusive behavior.

The woman you are becoming won’t allow lazy little boys live off her under the guise of supporting her man until he makes it and rewards her with marriage. That’s bull crap. You don’t raise a man because you want to be rewarded with marriage. That’s a recipe for heartbreak.

The woman you are becoming won’t have time for games

The woman you are becoming won’t live small so that she will be seen as a wife material. She won’t care about chasing away potential suitors because she lives large and drives her own car. This is nonsense. That’s how this society hinders young women from living a good life.

The woman you are becoming will spot bullshit from miles away and toss it without regrets. That woman won’t fight to make a man stay with her or fight other women over an irresponsible and disrespectful man. She won’t see herself as a prize to be won by a man.

The woman you are becoming won’t wait around for a man to decide if he wants to be with her or not. She won’t waste time hoping and striving for a man to see her worth and do right by her. She won’t wait around to be played with and tossed aside later.

The woman you are becoming will be deliberate about her life choices, relationships, friendships and money making venture. She won’t stop chasing her dreams because one man wants her to be who he wants her to be and not who she wants to be.

Choose that woman. Become her and don’t look back. You are worth much more than what this society wants you to believe. Live your best life. Be a good woman but refuse to played and tossed around. Live free!

Kate

I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.

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2 Responses

  1. Sonke says:

    I love these articles /pieces they make me feel empowered and inspired knowing there’s nothing i can’t do as a woman.

  2. Ebube says:

    Inspiring

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