There are things Nigerian women should stop doing in relationships. One of them is desperately trying to keep an unwilling man.
It hurts to see young ladies running after men who don’t want to be with them.
It is even more disturbing that many of these ladies go to the extreme just to keep these men by their sides.
You cannot force relationships.
You can’t keep disgracing yourself and your family just because you want to get married and tomorrow you won’t let us hear word on social media with your many ‘What do I do posts?’
Understand that if a man doesn’t call you, it’s because he doesn’t want to. It’s not because he’s very busy. A man can’t be too busy to hear the voice of his beloved.
If he doesn’t invite you to go out, it’s because he’s sure you are not the one and he doesn’t want to see you. Stop begging him to go out with you.
If he treats you like shit, it’s because he doesn’t care about you. It’s not about him not knowing how to talk and act around you. You are worthless to him. If he knows your worth, he won’t keep treating you like an animal.
If he lets you go even after all your cooking, pounding and fucking his brains out, it’s because you don’t matter. He doesn’t want to be with you. It’s not a spiritual attack. Stop lying to your destiny.
If he says you are the love of his life but he’s not ready for commitment yet he wants all the benefits of a husband, you are fooling yourself with him. Run away while you still have the time before you waste a decade with him.
Just stop playing his confusing games. Stop justifying his actions. He’s not confused. You are being taken for a ride. You shouldn’t be that naive and stupid.
When a man wants a woman, he goes for her, no lies, no games, no excuses and no complications. He treats her like a Queen and looks out for her interests.
You can’t keep playing wife to a man who doesn’t know what he wants. You are going to worn yourself out trying to keep up with him.
Stop hurting yourself by fighting other women to leave him alone. Is he not an adult? Is he being forced on these other women?
Stop breaking your own heart by fighting for someone who is not good enough for you. Love is not complicated.
Give yourself an opportunity to be happy, truly happy with a man who deserves you. Leave confused men alone.
Don’t die for nothing over the wrong man. You are not Jesus Christ and no, you don’t have a reward in heaven if you die over an irresponsible man.