There are things every woman should have at different decades of her life. As women age, their lives should be complete with some things and accomplishments which they should be proud of.
According to twosouthernsweeties.com, every woman in her 30s should have these 30 things for a better life. Enjoy.
*The ability to live on your own and not be dependent on anyone.
*A dream so big that it scares you. But one that you are committed to making a reality against all odds.
*The knowledge of who you are as a woman. What makes you happy and what is no longer tolerated.
*An old boyfriend who makes you smile when you remember him and one who makes you proud of how far you have come.
*An outfit that makes you feel invincible if your future employer or man of your dreams calls to meet you in an hour.
*At least one friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry.
*Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it.
*One secret that makes you smile. One which no one must discover.
*The ability to let go of the hurts from your childhood and embrace the fact that your parents did the best they could with the skills they had.
*At least one lover who knows exactly how to touch you to make your toes curl.
*A journal full of your deepest thoughts.
*An older woman in your life who embodies the traits you wanna develop in your old age.
*The knowledge of what you are willing to accept and what you are not willing to stomach in a relationship.
*A piece of jewelry that has sentimental meaning.
*An accomplishment that’s all yours that is not tied to anyone, something you have done or created all on your own.
*A photo album full of memories, even if it’s on a flash drive or saved to your email.
*You have done at least one thing kind for someone that has no way to ever repay your kindness.
*The ability to say no without having to add anything further.
*A hole in your heart from losing someone you have loved deeply.
*A hobby that you can get lost in for hours.
*A purpose to rise out of bed every morning.
*Someone you love with your whole heart.
*A soundtrack to your life that when you hear it on the radio you sing at the top of you lungs.
*A spirituality that feeds your spirit and nourishes your soul.
*Something you do that’s just for you and no one else.
*A memory that makes you cringe because those memories were lessons that brought you to here and now.
*An outfit that makes you feel safe from the world.
*The memory of a kiss so powerful that the thought of it could sustain you into old age.
*A person you can call early in the morning because you are in a fix and need to vent.
*The ability to look in a mirror and love the imperfect body that stare back at you because you earned them all over time.
*The understanding that life goes on no matter the failures you may have encountered.
