Woman, you don’t need to reduce yourself or play small just to get married.
You don’t need to reduce yourself so that a man can feel in control.
The worst thing you can do to yourself is to appear dumb so that a man can feel intelligent. You will lose out on the end.
Any man who demands that you play small for him to be with you doesn’t deserve you to begin with.
He shouldn’t be anywhere near you. Such men are bad for your life and self esteem.
If you keep playing small for him to feel good about himself, you are helping him strip you of everything that makes you unique, special and attractive. That’s not right.
Don’t do it. Don’t belittle yourself for another human being. You were not created to massage the deflated ego of an insecure man. You are complete in yourself.
No matter what you do, such a man won’t be satisfied. He will keep taking from you and draining you. He won’t stop until you are finished.
He will use every means possible to keep reducing your self esteem.
Staying with a man who is not sure and confident of himself is hurting yourself.
If he doesn’t feel comfortable with your achievements, leave him alone. Marriage will make him worse.
If you are in a relationship with a man who keeps complaining about how successful you are, let him go.
Don’t make the mistake of marrying such a man, you will regret it.
If he keeps feeling inferior around you, your family and friends and keeps complaining about how successful women don’t make submissive wives, run away fast while you still can.
If he feels you are too much for him, let him go and look for someone who fits into his idea of a woman.
Dear woman, you deserve more. Never forget that.
