Being a virgin doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage. As a woman, that you married a virgin doesn’t mean your husband won’t be sleeping with your house girls and his workers if he doesn’t have self control.
Some men and women believe that being a virgin guarantee a happy home as the virgin’s husband will cherish her like gold. They believe he won’t have the mind to cheat on his virgin wife and that she will also earn respect trust from him. They have not considered virgins married to bad and abusive husbands. They don’t consider virgins married to stingy and uncaring men. Will their marriages last with all these hidden problems because the wife was a virgin?
I think people should focus on important things instead of running after virgins. How does your man or woman treat you when people are not looking? How do they treat people beneath them? How do they react when things don’t go as planned? Do they care for you when you are sick? Do they love your person and not your financial acquisitions? Will they stand by you through good and bad times?
If you are married to the wrong person, your virginity is the last thing that can keep your marriage. If your husband or wife lacks respect for you, virginity won’t guarantee you both will have a lasting marriage. If your man or woman is obsessive, jealous and ill-mannered, virginity won’t stick you together forever.
Some men erroneously believe that marrying virgin wives will prevent their women from being promiscuous. You are on a long thing. The day that woman will meet a man who can work her body from her head to her toes, you will know that virginity is not a guarantee. The day she discovers that you don’t dig her site well, you are a goner.
Is it not funny that some men say claim that marrying a woman who is not a virgin is like eating leftover food, yet their own left over foods are screaming their names all over the place. I don’t know who they want to eat their own leftovers.
Let me say it again, marrying a virgin doesn’t guarantee a happy, long lasting marriage if both partners don’t respect their marital vows and commit to each other till death. Marrying a virgin doesn’t mean you will enjoy a lifelong union with your spouse, believing that sham will break your heart in the long run.
That a woman married a virgin doesn’t mean she will make a good wife. That a man married as a virgin doesn’t mean he no longer has issues with anger and jealousy. That a couple got married as virgins is not a pointer to happily ever after if there are issues that they have refused to work on together.