10 reasons women shouldn’t marry insecure men

Dating an insecure man is bad news. Marrying one is like hell on earth. Such men bring nothing but drama into your life.

Any sensible lady who wants the best for her life and future should stay far from such men. She shouldn’t overlook obvious signs of an insecure man in love.

What causes a man to be insecure is low self esteem. Men who are not confident in themselves hurt women they date or marry.

An insecure boyfriend controlling your life is one of the traits of insecure men. Even if you learn how to talk to an insecure guy, having a relationship with him will drain you emotionally and psychologically.

An insecure man’s mind games are emotionally exhausting. You don’t want that for your life as a lady that deserves to love and be loved.

One of insecure men traits surfaces when you open up and tell your partner that he’s suffocating you with negative attention and he use it against you. He will turn it around and accuse you of cheating on him.

Below are 10 characteristics of insecure men that ladies should bear in mind to avoid unnecessary heartaches.

1. He needs constant validation. He frequently asks you if you love him and when you say you do, he doesn’t believe you.
2. He threatens to break up with you. He does this just to test you. He doesn’t want to leave you but he guilt trips you into staying with him even though he’s draining you.
3. He accuses you of still loving your ex no matter how much you love him and show him too.
4. He checks your phone all the time. He suspects text messages and calls you get.
5. He is jealous of your friends. He doesn’t like you spending time with them.
6. He claims all his exes cheated on him. He is the poor victim as all the women he dated are bad women.
7. He gets angry when you can’t spend time with him due to work and other social engagements.
8. He smothers you with gifts so that you won’t leave him. He tries to buy your affection with gifts.
9. He accuses you of being unfaithful every chance he gets. He can go further to sniff your panties just to satisfy himself.
10. He stalks you on social media. He commands you to delete posts and gets angry when people compliment you. He can also demand you deactivate your social media accounts if you want to remain his woman.