In Nigeria, some men justify cheating on their wives by claiming they can’t be eating one type of soup everyday.
These men are quick to say that no man can stick to one woman for life without cheating on her.
They keep drumming it into women’s ears and telling them to their faces that men are polygamous in nature and women shouldn’t expect fidelity from them.
This lie from the pit of hell has lasted for generations and the sad part is that women have bought into it.
These women have resigned themselves to fate that there’s no faithful man in Nigeria.
They go into relationships and marriages expecting their boyfriends and husbands to cheat on them.
They tell other women to stop complaining when their husbands cheat on them with different women.
They teel these women that as long as these men are not bringing their lovers home and having sex with them on their matrimonial beds, they should be thankful.
When some Nigerian men claim that they can’t stay faithful because they are polygamous in nature, they should also bear in mind that women are polyandrous in nature.
Women cannot be eating one type of soup everyday too.
The way most men love eating different soups is the way women love to taste different soups too.
Since we can now liken cheating to soup tasting and eating, what is good for men is also good for women.
Men, hear this and hear this clearly, your wife cannot be eating your soup everyday without craving for another man’s soup too.
Women love varieties too. They love is big, strong and exciting too just like you like them big, sweet and sexy.
Any man who justifies cheating with not being able to eat one type of soup everyday should not be surprised if his soup is not the only one his wife is eating too.
Men need to stop fooling themselves thinking that they have the monopoly of cheating. Cheating on the woman you should love and respect is wrong.
Stop justifying with that annoying soup analogy. Women have feelings too.
Nigerian men, stop hurting your wives. Stop cheating on them with impunity.