That man who sought advice on whether to pay off a side a chic the sum of N2M or NOT is my husband. We’ve been married for 10 years and have two children.
I am happy that my husband brought the post here so we can get the honest opinion of well meaning people who do not know us.
I am thankful for the ADMIN of this page and for all you virtuous people who understand the sanctity of marriage and stood up for what is right, married or unmarried.
And as for those in support of my husband funding a side chic’s education, may your children’s trust fund and inheritance find its way into the hands of a side chick that caused you nights of pain and sorrow.
I didn’t know there are many side chics on this page but it is well. This page is for all. Just goes to show how morally low our society has become by giving entitlements to what is clearly wrong and evil.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not blaming the side chic, I blame my husband for breaking his vows in the first place.
When I found out and I raised hell, he decided to break up with her but he was still in contact and was sending her a huge amount of money every month…up to 200k monthly.
How did I find out? When things like this happens to you, you will become an FBI. My husband does not even know how I find out all these and he’ll never know unless I tell him.
I told him to stop or I’ll leave the marriage. And I meant it. He argued he didn’t want to leave the side chic stranded since he got her into school. He was not meant to get her into school in the first place.
Everything about it is wrong. Who in their right senses would agree to that when we have kids whose future we haven’t yet planned for? So I said over my dead body.
Well, since that post was published 3 days ago, my husband’s has somehow returned to his senses. He told the side chic on the phone in my presence that it was over and she was crying and begging him.
He has brought out all his phones and unlocked them. He’s more open and more transparent and has been confessing his sins to me.
When I hear of some of them, I get so mad that I feel like walking out but I remind myself that he is trying to do things right and cut him some slack. It’s a very difficult and painful process for me.
He suggested that we see a counsellor to help us through this difficult period and I agreed. He’s been spending a lot of time with me and has moved back into our bedroom. I’m crying but they are tears of joy.
Thank you all whose comments helped to bring my husband back to his senses. May God come through for you in your deepest darkest hour. You will never be put to shame. May God protect and keep your homes happy and may your children never know lack.”
From one facebook page.
Yawns. Yawns again and yawns some more.