Ghanian actress Nadia Buari said that some men focus more on how to get a woman, and once they have her, they lose focus on how to keep her. Ain’t that messed up?
So ladies, stop rushing into relationship because of the fear of being single, then making compromises and losing your identity. Don’t do that. KNOW YOUR WORTH!
According to Nadia Buari, there’s a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who will do anything to keep you. Unfortunately, many ladies don’t know the difference between men who just want them for sex and men who want them for keeps.
Nadia Buari added that people make time for who they want to make time for. They text, call or reply to people they want to talk to. Never believe anyone who says they are too busy. “Too Busy” is a myth. No one is ever too busy, it’s all about priorities. If they wanted to be around you or call you, they would!
Ladies need to understand that no man is too busy to have time for the woman he loves. If he’s too busy then something else is taking all his time and you are definitely not important in his life. Stop kidding yourself.
It’s funny that in this part of the world, women are hounded with different advice from left, right and centre on how to keep their men.
People don’t expend such energy to tell men what to do to keep their women. They errorneously believe that once a man has a woman, he won’t lose her.
This is what Nadia Buari is trying to make ladies understand. If you are not his focus, he won’t do the work to keep you in his life. You don’t have to be fighting to keep him alone when he’s not doing anything to keep you too.
Reality flash guys…if you play your woman like a ball another man will catch her like a goalkeeper. Don’t say I didn’t advice you people. If you don’t focus on your woman, you will lose her.
I believe more women should be focused on themselves and stop running after men who don’t care about them. It is sad that these men just want to chase, woo and win women over for their selfish interests.
Women should be strong and not allow who have lost focus toy with their hearts, feelings and emotions. They need to be firm too in defining the kind of relationship they want from men.