Ladies, where do we draw the line between giving guys gifts and buying their love?

Ladies, where do we draw the line between giving guys money and gifts and subtly buying their love with gifts and money?

Why do some women insist on taking back gifts and money they have given to men in their lives when these going was good?

You meet a man. He ticks all the boxes. You fall head over heels in love with him or mesmerised by the size of his rod and the sweetness of his thing.

While dating, you gave or dashed or borrowed him money. You didn’t know which one of the above anymore because it was done under the cover of sheets amidst sweet words and sweet knacking.

Things are going on well for you both or so you thought until you discovered that uncle was a community sharer, as in he’s the father of many nations in the making. You get angry.

You tell uncle to return all the monies you gave him. Uncle asked you if you have proof that you gave him money. You start stammering and calling on the gods of your mothers to strike him deaf, dumb, blind and dead.

Bhet how will he pay you your money back if he becomes a liability to everyone around him? Did he beg you for the money or did you give it him willingly because he was your man?

Where do women draw the line between giving guys money because they love and enjoy their company and giving them money just to keep them by their sides?

When you end a relationship with a guy, do you need to collect the monies and gifts you gave him just because things didn’t work out between you two?

Why do women who give guys large sums of money when the relationship was good still turn around to cry wolf when things go sour?

I don’t believe it’s the right thing to do especially if the guy didn’t obtain the money and gifts by false pretense or through emotional blackmail.

Women should learn to let go of relationships without drama. If things don’t work out between you and a guy, don’t start demanding that he gives you back the gifts and money you gave him. It’s tacky.