Why do men love women who lie to them? Why do they go to unimaginable lengths to please women who are deceiving them? Is it that men love lies or what?
I have received messages from some ladies complaining about Nigerian men having problems with women who are honest about their feelings and are expressive about them.
Some of these ladies tell me that they are tired of being dumped by men because they were honest with them and didn’t have the heart to deceive them.
One lady told me that she recently broke up with her boyfriend because he refused to listen to her concerns about their relationship. She was in tears.
They have been dating for three years and were planning to get married next year when she decided to call off the whole thing because he was joking with her emotions.
She cheats on her with different woC he tells her that she’s just looking for a fight because she’s the only one he loves and those ladies were just flings.
She told him that he was creating an emotional void in her life by refusing to talk about his constant philandering and do something about it but uncle got angry.
He told her that since he provides for her and takes care of her needs financially that she has to turn a blind eye to his cheating and learn how to pet a man so that they get married.
This lady told me that she was almost going crazy because whatever he tells him while having a heart to heart talk with him will be used against her afterwards if they have another fight. She got tired of pleading with him to stop hurting her and ended their relationship.
Another lady sent me a message asking if she did the right thing by telling a guy who wanted to date her that she didn’t love him. She said she likes him as a friend but doesn’t see herselfim as a friend but doesn’t see herself dating him or having sec with him.
She said the guy has been nice to her, gives her money, buys things for her and sends her airtime always but she doesn’t love him. She feels bad for leading him on because he was looking forward to them dating.
When she told him she didn’t feel the same way about him, he got angry and called her unprintable names. He said she was just lying because she met someone richer and better than him but the truth was that she doesn’t love him.
Another lady said she told one guy who was chasing her that she won’t wash his clothes, clean his house or cook for him while they are still dating because she doesn’t do those things. He said she was joking because young ladies do that to prove their worth to their men.
When it dawned on him that she was serious about not doing those things, he became angry and blocked her on WhatsApp and Facebook. He insulted her first and told her she would die single.
What I don’t understand is why some Nigerian men find it hard to deal with women who are honest with them. Does it mean that they prefer women who lie to them and those who pretend just to get what they want?
I have been thinking about this for a while now because some women have told me that they regret being honest with the men in their lives as these men turn around and use what they told them against them.
So these days, they just pretend and keep quiet about what they truly feel and allow these men think they are on the same page with them. But they are just deceiving them. Why do men love women who lie to them?
They don’t have sense na