Dear Nigerian women, don’t disregard tales of abuse by your current partner’s exes. Don’t wave them aside because you are in love or because you think the guy in question won’t do the same thing to you.
This post below sums it up for me. Please read…
“Do not disregard tales of abuse by the exes of your significant other. Listen to the other woman, especially in cases of abuse. It can save your life. Don’t think oh he’s changed or he loves me and I’m special so won’t hurt me.
Look at Karueche, Chris Brown’s ex. She knew of Rihanna yet ventured. She even vouched for him while they were dating. That Chris is a loving man and not in the least violent.
What happened? After they broke up she admitted he hit her in the stomach and abused her physically.
Remember 2Short? His ex Beverly Osu of Big Brother fame accused him of intense physical violence. His fiancee came out then, insulting Beverly, calling her a prostitute and dragging her through the mud. A year later she ran away with her child and said he beat her mercilessly even when she was breastfeeding.
Dino Melaye’s first wife ran away and said it was because of how he beat her that she landed in the hospital. Dino’s new squeeze gave a clapback.
Next year she too ran away after posting pictures on LIB of her broken nose and what not.
MayD beat up his whitey manager/babe and denied it together with his baby mama. Few months later baby mama uploaded pictures of her back where he used a BELT to desecrate her body. Vile pictures.
Churchill’s ex wife talked about how horrible he was and what a deadbeat father he was to their daughter, insinuating that he was violent too. Tonto still went ahead and married him. Lo and behold…
Emma Nyra talked about how abusive Ubi Franklin was when they dated and how he hit her. Lilian married him. A year later she ran away. Main reason: domestic violence.
I could go on and on. Summary is, woman please listen. You are not special. If he did all that stuff to others, chances are he would do it to you.
You see a man who drags his ex after a breakup and talks about their body in horrible ways. As una dey do lovey dovey, know that he will do it to you too.
The ex is not always the jealous bitch that doesn’t want to see your man happy with you. She might be the warning sign the universe sent to you that you chose to ignore.”
Written by Ijeoma Chinonyerem