Woman, if you play small for a man to feel powerful, you will lose yourself

Dear woman, if you play small for a man to feel powerful, you will lose yourself. Any man who is threatened by your brilliance and drive to be successful in life is insecure.

He shouldn’t be in your life because he will destroy you. He will keep demanding that you reduce who you are so that he won’t feel powerless. He won’t stop until you are drained and lost.

Such men bring nothing but drama, headaches and premium tears. Stay away from insecure men who believe women shouldn’t be more successful than men. They make bad partners and husbands.

People, when you tell the girl child, you should learn how to cook so that your husband will love you more, you are limiting her greatness. A girl was created to achieve things greater than cooking and cleaning.

Why is it hard for a successful woman to find a man? It’s because most men feel threatened by successful women. An insecure man says ‘she’s too smart for me’ instead of supporting his woman to progress. It’s a sad development.

While cool guys are learning how to attract an intelligent woman, insecure men stop their women from making money and being successful in life. A beautiful and intelligent woman is an asset most guys miss because of insecurities.

Dating a woman more successful than you is not a bad thing. If a woman supports your dreams and efforts to make money, it is good that you support her too. She doesn’t deserve to be stopped from making something out of her life.

Nigerian men should know that dating a professional woman is not something they should be afraid of. If you demand support from your woman, then you must support her too.

The annoying thing is that some guys don’t like smart girls. They claim women are not supposed to be smarter than men. These guys are funny. Is it that women are not smart at all?

When you tell a woman, you can have ambition but not too much so that your man won’t feel threatened, you are telling her reduce herself to make another human being feel better.

When you tell ladies to be successful but not too much so that they won’t scare men away from them, you are encouraging these ladies not to reach for all their dreams.

Young lady, who are you listening to? Are you being hounded everyday to reduce yourself so that you can get married? Are you being told not to buy a car or build a house because you need a man to validate your existence?

Don’t try it. You will regret it. If a man can’t match your efforts, let him step up his game. You weren’t created to reduce who you are. You were created to succeed. Refuse to be reduced to a cook and a cleaner.

Don’t let opportunities to make money and be highly successful pass you by. Go into that business. Buy that land. Build that house. Buy your dream car. Live big!

Open your business. Fly in your career. Go back to school if you must. Get more education. Go for trainings. Build different businesses if you can. Fly, woman, fly.

If you play small for him to feel big and powerful, you will lose yourself. You won’t live your life to the full. Life is too short to be in the shadows.

You shouldn’t limit yourself or stifle your potentials because you want to please a man. You will end up unhappy and unfulfilled. In the long run, you will start to resent him for reducing you to nothing.

Woman, don’t do that to yourself. You are worth much more than a man who is threatened by your success. Be everything you want to be and more. You deserve to be rich and  successful.

So, live your best life! If you play small, this society will still judge you. If you lose yourself trying to please society, you would have wasted your life time. Be wise!