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What’s the point of being a nice girl when people try to dump their stupidity on your head?

Tokunbo Idowu aka TBoss

I don’t know the people that provoked former Big Brother Naija Star Tokunbo Idowu popularly known as TBoss recently because she didn’t hold back while expressing herself.

TBoss noted that people have the right to freedom of speech but that doesn’t give them the right to come on her social media pages to spew nonsense and expect her to be the bigger person by ignoring their negative and toxic comments.

According to TBoss, what’s the point of being a nice girl when people try to dump their stupidity on your head?


She also wonders why it is always women who troll her the most when they should be her greatest supporters. Read her explosive post below:

“#Freedomofspeech..Yes people are free to say whatever they want. Insult me, chat sh*+ about me, no problem, especially on blogs. That’s out of my control. Truth is you’ll never be more than just another hating handle to me and I will drag you.

But come to my page, my house and spew crap, since you’re a bastard & want to try yourself, no problem bring it on.

Tokunbo Idowu aka TBoss

Cos I ain’t gone to anyone’s page ever to be unfortunate so I will drag you and then BLOCK you.

What’s the point of being a nice girl when people try to dump their stupidity on your head?

And how is it that it’s mostly females that pick on you? The same women that “should be supporting women”?

Every once in a while, you find a man who trolls but that’s the 1% who’s lost their manhood & simply have nothing better to do with their lives than attempt to make someone feel bad.

I am NOT the cause of your problems. Deal with your misery elsewhere and leave me outta it.

If you need a hug just say so, I’m happy to direct you to get one from the nearest transformer.

Be the bigger person they say. Don’t respond to the trolling. It’s hard but I try sometimes. But there’s only so much anyone can take. Besides, who bigger person don epp?”

Nigerians should learn to mind their business and stop dumping their frustrations and anger on innocent people online.

Stop trolling people and expect them to ignore you. You are not sensible if you do that.

The people you are trolling and calling unprintable names are human beings like you with challenges and problems like you.

If you don’t have anything nice and sensible to say about someone’s posts on social media, just keep quiet and move on.

You don’t have to display your lack of manners in public and expect to be patted on the back. It won’t work.

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I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.


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