Eva Alordiah has questioned why many married men go about without their wedding rings.
She said this habit makes it hard for women to know which men are available and which ones are not.
Eva Alordiah wrote: “Can anyone explain why many married men do not wear their wedding bands?”
I mean.. make it easy for us. So we can separate the targets from the targeted. Shit fucks me up when I have already mentally planned a follow up, only to find out you are married and with kids.
Guy, stop it. Not cool. If you are cuffed, be cuffed and stay cuffed. On sight!
Comments on this post reveal how men justify their cheating but get angry when women do the same thing. The double standard is nauseating.
One woman said: “Hubby never wore his own after our wedding. Me I carry my wedding ring like say I’m the first to be married flashing it to everyone face. Then I advice myself after I noticed that, I removed mine and keep for drawer. Come see quarrel. He started accusing me of cheating. Meaning he has been cheating all this while. I refused to wear mine abeg. He is teaching me and I dey learn work and I don’t get first class self. I no come this life to die of wetin I no know abeg. Any dance step wey he bring, we go dance am together and I go dance it better than him. I never born pikin so I’m free to run away with my small bags of clothes if he no want change. Rubbish.”
Daniel wrote: “Does wedding ring define faithfulness or does it limit the preference of some women for married men? Just thinking.”
Idris wrote: “We don’t want to give rings to our women in the first place. Oyinbo brought that culture to Africa but if men refuse to give rings to ladies, most of them would think the men do not love them. Why do women like to be deceived with a promise ring, engagement ring, and wedding ring? African women should wake up to that reality and leave their men alone.”