Lauren London on Getting ‘Derailed’ Almost 3 Years Since Death of Nipsey Hussle
Lauren London is learning the art of letting go. During an appearance Tuesday on Jay Shetty’s podcast On Purpose, London opened up about how she’s coped with life’s trials and tribulations, almost three years since the death of rapper Nipsey Hussle.
“When you have this plan for your life, as you should, if or when that gets derailed, and you have plan B now to go off that you didn’t plan on, it is the ultimate test of surrender,” the actress, 37, told host Shetty. “Because at the end of the day as much control as we think we have, we do not.”
The actress also said she believes life will take its course — and “surrendering” is an act of courage.
“It’s actually very powerful to surrender — we think that it’s a weakness, but it’s so much power in letting go and flowing with the river because life is going to do what it’s going to do,” she said.
“We are all going to get chin-checked by life one way or another — so I might as well focus on my enlightenment and roll with the river and not fight with the rocks.”
London and Hussle dated for five years and welcomed son Kross Ermias, 5, in 2016 before the rapper’s death in 2019. She is also mother to 12-year-old son Kameron Samuel Ari, whom she shares with ex-fiancé Lil Wayne.
On Aug. 15, London marked what would have been Hussle’s 36th birthday, and shared a heartfelt tribute on Instagram.
“Happy Birthday My King! I Love You Today and Forever Missing you is just apart [sic] of my DNA and I wear it with honor,” she wrote at the time, adding, “Kross reminded me that you are ’36’ like me. 💙✨ 1 of 1 Hussle The Great there will never ever be another.”
In April, London returned to her first acting project since his death, the film Without Remorse, to set an example for her children.