OAP “Toolz” Oniru-Demuren recently said that men who feel threatened or are turned off by a woman’s success are primitive.and ghetto.
Toolz stated this while reacting to a video of Hardly Initiated podcast hosts, Tysean Jackson and Ryan Catchings, where they said that high-earning women are not attractive to men.
The duo had invited a finance guru Phillip Karaya to initially discuss business for their audience. In the one sequence, Catchings said that women who are successful in their careers are “less attractive.”
“I had a woman tell me: ‘I got a good job, I make very, very good money and the only thing I need now is a man,'” Catchings said. “But who wants you? Like, who wants you? If you have achieved these things, you have unfortunately disqualified yourself.”
Commenting on the video, Toolz said that: “I personally think that men who are turned off by high earning/successful women give off little d energy…but what do I know?”
Addressing women on her Instagram story, she stated that the right partner should not feel threatened by their success.
“The right partner should celebrate you fully and not feel like you being successful is going to ‘bring disrespect’. That’s so primitive and ghetto” she added.
Dating someone who makes less money than you can put a strain on your relationship, but it doesn’t have to. To avoid issues, try to be honest with yourself about what you’re looking for in the relationship.
You also need to communicate your financial needs and wants to your partner before things get serious. This is why men don’t date women who earn more than them.
When women out-earn their husbands, marriages struggle. Marriages of female breadwinners are 50% more likely to end in divorce, according to a University of Chicago study. This is what happens when a woman earns more than her husband.
