Nigerian entrepreneur, Francis Van Lare has advised women not to divorce their cheating husbands so that they won’t end up as married men’s side chicks.
Francis Van Lare wrote:
“When you divorce your husband because he cheated on you, you are most likely going to end up being a married man’s side chick especially if you have children.
That means that you divorced your husband and took revenge on a fellow woman by sleeping with her man.
Forget that ‘I don’t want to do the same thing he did and I want to be faithful until my marriage ends before I find myself a new boyfriend ‘.
It’s best to find yourself that new boyfriend while still married to your cheating husband and turn your husband to your side gbola .
No matter who gets custody your children, they will end up being ‘second class citizens’ in your new home if you remarry as your new spouse will favour the children born of the new marriage or the children they brought into the marriage if you have no children born of the marriage when you remarry.
Cheat your own cheat in peace and have a big smile when you return home after getting a good poi from your new boyfriend because the children will grow up with both parents and it is a win win for the family.
How do you think our grand parents remain married for 50 years? Do you think our grandfathers did not cheat? Our grandmothers did not divorce them they got themselves their personal Mandingos.”
In some cases, it isn’t advisable to take back a cheater. If you aren’t married and don’t have children together, it may be best to go your separate ways after an affair. In addition, be warned that some people will continue to cheat whether or not they’re satisfied with their marriage. This is why you shouldn’t take back a cheating husband.