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Man seeks advice after finding out his wife slept with six men during her NYSC year

A heartbroken man has recounted how he found out that his newly married wife had slept with six men at NYSC camp and did ab*rtion twice for one.

According to this man, his fiancée who had gone for NYSC failed to redeploy over complicated issues.

After her service year, she returned but with a more withdrawn attitude. She rarely talked much and when he asked her about it, she  told him she lost a friend.

The man revealed that he took it upon himself to do the house chores so she that she will have time to rest.

But unknown to him, his wife had been corresponding with the guy and they had been planning to elope together.

She, however, confessed that she had slept with six men at the NYSC camp and had done abortions for her lover, Niyi.

Read the man’s post below:

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“Good morning. My girlfriend went to serve last year and she was supposed to redeploy back to our base but it didn’t work. Because of the distance her father advised us to get engaged.

Despite the fact that I just got a job, I applied for loan and it was granted. We were able to do introduction and court wedding. So she was wearing her rings but she still wasn’t deployed.

During the 1 year service, she comes home and I go visit her. She just finished serving a couple of weeks ago. I made sure our house got a new look as we were looking forward to our wedding by August next year.

I notice my wife is always sad and disconnected. So I kept asking her what was wrong and she said she lost a friend. I started doing everything at home before I go to work so she can rest and I buy her small things everyday so she could be happy but that didn’t stop the dullness.

Her mum called last night and while greeting me, she said she sent some prayers to our WhatsApp that we should pray with it. By the time I remembered, my wife was sleeping. So I decided to pray alone.

I checked my WhatsApp for her mum’s message and it wasn’t there so I checked hers. That was when I saw the chats from one Niyi guy that she has been going out with in camp and she ab*rted twice for. They are even planning on running away together. Till now, my body is still shaking.

I confronted her and she started shouting about why I was checking her phone, started cussing me but after so much argument, she confessed she had slept with six guys in camp and she met the Niyi at her place of primary assignment that’s why she didn’t want to redeploy.

I’m so sad and heartbroken. I can’t go to work. I have been crying. I loved her so much. I don’t know if I can ever forgive her. Please advise me. What should I do? Please conceal my identity.”

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