A 33-year-old South African woman, Zukiswa Joyi, who revealed that she is still a virgin, has thrown shade at women who pray for their cheating spouses instead of walking out of their emotionally abusive marriages.
She wrote:
“When it comes to cheating spouses, Jesus Christ didn’t say you should pray, he said leave. But you prayer warrior of the most high you are there praying and collecting diseases and emotional and physical abuse, even Jesus can’t save you.”
“Even God walked out on Israel whenever she was cheating (bowing to idols or other gods) he left them in the hands of their enemies until they came back to their senses and humbled themselves and left their side cocks to be with him the Husband.” she added.
Nigerian women won’t like this post. These women who deliberately marry men who don’t respect them or family ties are always quick to advise other women to pray for their cheating husbands to change.
It is annoying how a hurting wife is saddled with the responsibility of praying for her disrespectful husband to stop cheating on her, endangering her life and exposing her to all manner of evil.
It is annoying that women even believe this lie that prayers changes cheating men. Prayers don’t change anyone who doesn’t want to change. Your endless prayers with midnight prayers and fasting won’t make your husband stop cheating.
If this works, how come married men are not advised to fast and pray for their cheating wives to change too? Why are these prayer warriors not advising married men to fight for their marriages on their knees when they find out their wives have been unfaithful?
Why do African women keep deceiving themselves that praying for a cheating man will change him and make him a better husband?