This is the second part of Ijeoma Chinonyerem’s post regarding why she fell out with her bestie Nsikak Effiong after years of friendship.
Ijeoma Chinonyerem wrote:
5. Your defense for your mess up is we all gossip. No we all don’t. No, Nsikak, I am not a gossip like you.
There are several times I’ve threatened to block you if you don’t stop bringing people’s gist to me. Several times. People who aren’t even on my friend list. People whom I don’t know. People I’ve not interacted with. People who confided in you.
At some point I told you I’d block you and block them if you didn’t stop.
Should I start listing it Nsikak?
The girl who visited you that you claimed try to rape you.
Or the one that visited you that you said smells like pit latrine.
Or your best friend that you told me not to use her products cos it will destroy my skin.
Or your friend that cooks that you ran to tell me with joy that her husband is cheating cos she confided in you?
Or the one you tell everyone that cares to listen that her first child is not her husband’s?
Or the one that you said her husband is still dating his ex?
Or the popular lawyer you said forms lovey dovey with his wife but wants to dash you 20M to date you?
Or your friends you claim have had abortions and might not conceive? We will be talking about healthy meals for pregnant women and unprovoked you will chip it in. Unsolicited and unprovoked.
Or the one that you said did juju to kill her husband’s side chicks then stole 10k from you?
Or your friend that you keep talking about how much of a horrible husband he is.
Which one will I say abi leave out? I haven’t even scratched the surface. How many times did i tell you I’d block you if you don’t stop?
Nsikak was telling EVERYONE these things I wrote there. When they ask her how she knows, she’ll say it’s Ijeoma that told her. It’s Ijeoma that brings her gossip.
Ijeoma that nobody talks to inbox dey tell you stuff about people who aren’t even on her friend list.
Do you know the meaning of gossip?
6. It was after I stopped being friends with this girl that I found out that she orchestrated the Barimike thing with him to scam people. I went to her as far back as July telling her I wanted to leave. She refused. Started begging me. Every month the same thing. Even up to December last year.
January this year I got tired and made an exit post. When she found out I made an exit post, she was mad and wanted to keep malice with me.
I never knew she was doing all that because they were dating. I was even encouraging her to date him when she said she liked him. This girl said he’s way beneath her. Meanwhile she was in Lagos cooking and serving the man that was way beneath her. And planning for him to marry her.
This girl was telling people that she needed me to stay so I could take the fall when something happens. That she needs me to be the fall guy that they will drag.
But you be my friend.
7. If you wanted to post the screenshot of the message I sent you, start from the beginning. Tell people I cursed you cos you intentionally went into this scam with this man knowing it would fail just cos you want people to drag me. Your friends who knew you were in on it told you it would fail. You said by that time you go don cash out and it’s Ijeoma they will hold.
Why won’t I curse you Nsikak? WHY WON’T I CURSE YOU AND THE EARTH YOU WALK ON!
You were spending people’s money and knew it.
It was after we stopped being friends that I found out all the things she was posting was bought with the money people invested in Barimike! Barimike got her a brand new iPhone 12 or so and she lied to me that it was her bestie emem. Came on Facebook and made a post that her bestie emem got her a new phone too. Cos she knew if I know that it’s Barisuka I’d scream and alert people.
I literally found out a month ago. Why won’t I curse you!? Show people that part of my message to you, not just the curse!
8. When people confronted you about what you did to me, you opened your mouth and said you wished I’d fall from the stairs, break my neck and die. That if you had your way you will have me killed.
I said why won’t I curse you????? So that that death you want me to dye go come back to you and yours!
You even wrote a rebuttal that of course you fucked up. Who never fuck up hands in the air. Bragged about telling Gistville not to carry the counter subs by random people. How Gistville is in your pocket. It was still me that told our friends to tell you not to post so there won’t be a back and forth.
Nsikak, the only reason I didn’t tag you or name you in my intial post cos even though I dey do drags, I HAVE NEVER SUBBED OR DRAGGED ANYONE I WAS ONCE A FRIEND WITH. Ever.
Not because I’m afraid of you. Cos if you want me to rain down terror, I will make it rain. There is absolutely nothing you have on me.
The way I present myself online is the way I am offline. I don’t do runs. I don’t do nsaku. I’m not from a poor home. My MSC is real.
But you!
You dropped out of computer science. Did not serve. You’re a drop out!
But you’re on Facebook claiming you studied food science so you can sell food plans. You keep lying about every single thing!
I don’t post lies and made up reviews to generate sales. But you force people who didn’t use your food plan to write positive reviews for you. And when they refuse, automatic enemies.
Come to Facebook to make posts about big men coming to your house to buy your products. Pastor bringing his daughter to come and look at your toilet. Neighbours coming to buy all your stock. Meanwhile all na wash. All na lies. You so desperately want to be seen as rich. You lie even about your rent.
I no dey ever compete with you. Why did you feel the need to lie?
You said i claim big? Me? Me that told you I don’t have money but I’m ok. When Ovaioza happened i told everyone including you i don’t have money anymore cos my savings dey there. I dusted myself and moved on. You claimed you had at least 40M and you sell food plans of 150k a day. I believed you.
Yet na me you say dey claim big.
People call Ovaioza a liar but that’s cos they don’t know you. You would randomly come to me and lie about having properties all over uyo and building residential homes. Come to me unprovoked to tell me you have around 80M in the bank. How you’ve bought 4 cars. How you have a car dealership in Lagos.
I’d be so happy and praising you. You will now run to our friends and tell them Ijeoma is a fool o. That you told the idiot you had 80M and she believed and was hyping you. Was I not supposed to hype you? You hate me even when i cheer you on and are happy for you. You use it to mock me.
Randomly lie about everything unprovoked.
On Facebook you’re clean. In real life you leave plates in the sink for almost a week before washing.
On Facebook you love being 30. In real life you’re going to cleansing.
Out of both of us, only one of us has been jumping from one native doctor to another just to secure a man.
Frequenting native doctors just so you can keep a man cos all the men you meet find reasons to leave.
At 30 you’re so desperate to settle down you’ve been jumping from one native doctor and one river to another for cleansing.
Going about telling everyone all your best friends do runs and are forcing you to join them. Me, force you to do runs, Nsikak.
Only you dated chinmark and nearly wanted to die when he left you. Reason you started going for spiritual assignments to keep a man.
Only you dated Akor of Beningnant and went to see him at radisson blu ikeja 3 weeks to his wedding. And wanted to keel yourself when he ghosted you.
Only you dated def world.
Only you still dated barisuka and gave him 8.5 million of your mother’s pension money.
But na me and all your other friends dey do runs and want to force you to join.
Nsikak, if I talk about you, Facebook will break. I intentionally told our friends to tell you not to reply my first post cos I didn’t want to do a back and forth. I didn’t mention your name. After that post, I moved on.
But you left all the people that attacked you yesterday and came for me. You’ve been saying it that dragging me would be easy cos people no like me on Facebook. Na why you cook this lies to drag me.
Nne, shebi you wan drag. Get ready.
Let’s go
