Nsikak Effiong is not backing down from stating her own side of the story after falling out with Ijeoma Chinonyerem her former bestie.
Nsikak Effiong wrote:
“I never knew a day would come that I will be talking about money spent in friendships when the going was good. Lol! Ijeoma on a private chat to me when she was laying curses on her family part of which you see now. She said she has been giving me money. While you gave me money I also did. You sent gifts I also sent. So how are you making this look like you gave me money?
You said I no patronize you? Won’t I find the need for something to want to buy it?
When Ijeoma confronted me on WhatsApp and was laying curses on herself and family and was laughing about the death of my father cos according to her she wants me to hurt and suffer and how she was going to destroy me. But when somebody dragged her mom, she wanted to run mad with pain.
I initially wanted to apologize. Itee told me not to. (It all makes sense now) . I spoke to other people and they said I should apologize where I felt bad over. I apologized to her for what she saw. I apologized about the wardrobe and soup part cos I felt I owe her an apology there. I accepted that it was wrong of me. I even sent the apology to Itee to forward to her. I was angry cos of the curses she laid. All because of?
Many people have hurt me in the past. I don’t go laying curses. I cry and move on.. But she decided to so even after Itee asked me how I felt after apologizing and what I want.
I was angry too and said I wish she falls off the stairs. Now the screen shot below is a snippet of part of the curses Ijeoma laid on herself and her family cos of what she is also guilty of yet wishing she falls down the stairs is the grand evil
Ah! My crime was chatting with the best friend not like I went gossiping about her to many people as she claimed. But how is it that your man knows things about me? Aren’t you telling him things about me the same way I was talking to the best friend about you?
About the place she said I invited her to and spoilt her before she came. But what do I expect. Like they’d admit ever bad mouthing her? Those are the same people rushing to write ‘Nsikak told me this and that’. Yeah right, why not write what you said.
Truth is, these girls were worried about me inviting Ijeoma as they wouldn’t want to be dragged online by her later( lol, seems like people already know the kind of person you are). I told them, “Ijeoma is actually not as bad as you think she is online o. She has no friends, she’s not the tiger you think she is online”
These are along the line what I said. How is this bad? Just how ? And only 1 place I invited her to. But it’s how suddenly these girls claimed I said another thing. God abeg.
If her man didn’t go talking to his ex, I wouldn’t have known who he was cos she did a very good job hiding who he is and I didn’t even care till his ex was saying things I knew deep down I told Ijeoma ONLY. What her man said about me that I saw, it was obvious she herself had been “backbiting and gossiping“ me to her man. I knew all these and I didn’t come crying victim.
I have never claimed to be a saint, lol. If you saw me as one, cute. If staying on my lane online, minding my business, balling and living my life, blocking people ahead and before, naming my very precious properties I bought from my hustle is why you think I am fake and what not. I accept it! I never go about calling myself classy. You people will dash others tag and when you are tired you will start using the same things to drag them. Na una sabi.
Also, for that account claiming one of my aseobi girls told him I was/am planning a wedding. Shame the devil and post the screen shot and let the aseobi girl post the screen shots from the WhatsApp group of my supposed “wedding preparations”. I beg you in God’s name. At least post it to show I am a liar.
How would I be planning a whole ass wedding and I had no idea I was? Wedding and I wasn’t proposed to,? Wedding? LMAO! You just sit on your throne of a “wannabe gistlover” whereas all your supposed truths are lies! In fact, same gossip you all accused of is the same gossip you do but because you have a page it is breaking news? MUMU
Ijeoma me and you follow gossip and you come dey act innocent. The difference is that, I’ve always chested my gossip. Between me and you, everyone knows who has been more involved in anything that has to do with gossip, drags, vile posts to deliberately destroy someone, backbiting, lies, forming association with the enemies of someone to attack them. You are trying too hard to make me look like you. It won’t work. No matter what anyone says, you are you and I am me.
Also, aren’t you the same person who told me that I influenced you greatly that if not me you know you’d have been involved in many drags online this year ? Babe anytime you want to reply someone , I always told you not to. Just ignore cos there is no need. At least I know even if I was bad , I know say I no bad the way you talk am
I have tried to steer clear from drama online for years. I have built my brand for years free of negativity. I have people who trust me based on my brand online. I have people who do business with me just based on how I am online. Even when my “e-enemies” are being dragged online, while I laugh in private I know not to say a word in public. I have been told sensitive information by people and these secrets/sensitive information would definitely go with me to my grave and I’ve never told a soul even to a best friend . Itee’s secrets that I know goes with me to my grave. If you go tell Ijeoma my own( I already heard some ), that one concern you.
My own is, I will keep working to present the image I have maintained on Facebook for years. If you want to project the image of a vile, bitter person always involved in subs and call it being real, feel free. Me I will put only the best version of myself out there. Deal with it
This post is me stating my side on the Ijeoma part. I don’t have a problem with owning up to what I did, but I will never own up to a distorted story where they take 1 truth, mix with 9 lies and say that’s the whole truth. Never.
Let the second round of drags commence. You people will suck your family’s blood tire today not mine.”