An Australian mom went back to work only five days after giving birth. Jaelyn Cox, 29, works as a nightclub stripper and an OnlyFans model. She’s a mother of two daughters and she wants to give them the best life possible.
So she returned to work to continue making money less than a week after the birth of her second child, against her boyfriend’s wishes. But she believes that women who take a long maternity leave are lazy.
Maternity Leave is an “Excuse”
“I think those people are just lazy and looking for an excuse,” says Cox. She advises women to return to doing what they love to avoid feeling like they lost their identity, a common feeling for many moms.
“It’s important to not let being a mum take over your life. Every kid needs a happy mum and having a break from your kids is a good thing. I think it’s important to get back to your old life and back into a work routine. Sitting about the house and letting ‘being a mum’ take over your life is only going to make you depressed.”
Aside from returning to work, she says women should return to their pre-pregnancy figures as soon as possible. “I think getting to the gym the second week and dieting is a must after you give birth. And also for your relationship to start looking good again for your partner. A lot of woman let themselves go after giving birth and put weight on. Then their partner ends up cheating on them because they’re not the same person they were before giving birth.”
When Cox was pregnant with her first child, she was concerned she would lose money at her two jobs. But she learned that many men loved the baby bump and she had optimizes that popularity during her second pregnancy.
“When I was trying it in the beginning my confidence was just really low and the more guys weren’t bothered by it and I wasn’t losing money, the more my confidence grew.”
Many people are horrified by her attitude toward maternity leave. “Does she even want to be a mother?” asked a viewer on TikTok. Another said, “My mother sacrificed a lot to be a mum and this woman here doesn’t appreciate motherhood.”