Nollywood actress, Christabel Egbenya has admonished young girls who cook and wash for their boyfriends with the aim of convincing the men that they are marriageable.
The mother of one made this known in reaction to viral video of a girl who invested all on her saving on her boyfriend who later eloped with another lover overseas.
Christabel Egbenya noted that giving a man money is not going to make him marry you. She also warned ladies who spend days in their man’s house washing, cleaning and doing all sorts of erotic things on bed to stop setting themselves up for future heartbreaks.
On a video she posted on her verified Instagram page, Christabel Egbenya said, “This message if for all you who are yet to get married, yet you pack your bags to man’s house turning yourself into his wife. You will wash, iron, cook his foods. Wash his bathroom and give him access to all your s£xual parts. Tomorrow when he dumps for another person, you will start crying and complaining. Why will he not dump you? When you have offered him all you have. Stop being a wifey when he has not paid your bride price.”
She continued: “Ask around. For me, I don’t go men’s house to cook when I was still single. Cook and wash for you? Have I finished cooking and washing for myself? If I manage to go a man’s house to spend a day, he would be thankful. Because, I don’t usually do that. Also stop giving them money, so you will not be disappointed when they eventually end up not marrying you.”
Christabel Egbenya had earlier shared her own perspective regarding the extent a man can go to marry a woman he’s in love with.
Speaking on Egbenya TV ‘Talk Show’, the actress claimed that money is never the issue for any man’s inability to marry the woman he truly loves. She stated that such a man can go to the extent of borrowing money just to marry the love of his life.