A Nigerian woman who left her cheating husband after only ten months of marriage has advised women not to stay with cheating husbands.
The woman, identified as @Toksyk27 on Twitter, took to the micro-blogging platform to give this advise on Sunday, March 21.
She said she would have dumped her husband two weeks into the marriage because their union was a nightmare but she stayed back due to their family intervention. However, she eventually mustered courage to leave after ten months.
Speaking from her experience, Toks advised women not to stay and endure infidelity and abuse in their marriages.
She tweeted,
“As a woman who left her cheating husband ten months into our marriage EYE am here to tell women you DON’T have to stay and endure. It would have been two weeks if not for family ‘intervening’. But I carry ZERO SHAME for enacting consequences to HIS ACTIONS,” she tweeted on Sunday, May 21, 2023.
“Will never forget waking up and realizing my life was a bad Nollywood film. Thankful for the privilege and strength I had to make the choice to leave rather than stay and endure.”
“Still looking for the script writer who will bring my story to life so I can make some coins from the pain I lived through.”
Whether or not you should stay with a partner who cheats is a choice only the people in the relationship should make. Cheating or infidelity can break a relationship, but it only depends on whether or not they can forgive their cheating partner and if they can start fresh.
If your partner continues to see the person with whom they cheated, it can be really hard to heal and move forward together. This can be a sign that they don’t consider your feelings and the impact the affair had on you. If that is the case, it’s a good reason to walk away and know your worth. This is when you should walk away from a cheating spouse.