A Nigerian woman named Bola, who goes by the username @bolaghold on TikTok, recently shared a video explaining her decision to end her marriage three months after the wedding.
Bola expressed that her main motive behind this difficult choice was to maintain her own peace of mind.
In the video posted on TikTok, Bola revealed her heartache after ending her marriage, considering the long term nature of her relationship with her ex-husband.
The sad woman revealed that she and her now-former husband had been dating for seven years before they decided to tie the knot in 2022.
According to her, the couple’s whirlwind romance has come to an end, and it has now been one year since Bola took the courageous step to leave the union.
In another emotional video, Bola, still wearing her wedding dress, could be seen reflecting on the painful memories associated with her wedding day.
While dressed in both a wedding gown and traditional attire, she lamented the circumstances that led her to this point.
She further expressed her frustration by cursing the date, June 26, the very day she had exchanged vows.
“Love can be war at times,” Bola stated in one of her videos, clearly indicating her confusion and disappointment in the outcome of her relationship.
She continued to ponder where she may have gone wrong in love, contemplating the various decisions and actions that led her to this heartbreaking situation.
Netizens react…
@aderonkeCAN_makeoverz wrote: “How were you able to manage? Because I am in this situationship. I’ afraid to leave because am not financially able to be on my own yet.”
@user9032291651472 sai; “Make una come explain wetin dey for marriage. Abeg 7 years of relationship only to divorce 3 months after the marriage.
@Nthabiseng said; “I am going through a lot. I am in 5 months of marriage, but already I feel like going out.”
