A Nigerian man, identified as Emmanuel Okorie, has offered advice to women facing infidelity in their marriages.
In a Facebook post on Sunday, July 9, the popular photographer provided valuable advice to wives who find themselves in a situation where their husbands are cheating on them.
According to Okorie, if a wife finds out that her husband is cheating, she should turn to prayer, seek a personal connection with God, repent for any wrongdoing, and fully dedicate herself to God.
He suggests that once her ways align with God’s will, she can then take authority over the spirit of cheating in her spouse.
However, Okorie acknowledges that nobody deserves to be cheated on, and his intention is not to justify or excuse such behavior. He emphasizes that the same advice applies if a husband discovers that his wife is cheating.
“Dear wife, if your husband is cheating, go to God in prayers, seek his face for yourself, repent and dedicate yourself to God, once your ways pleases God, then you can take authority over that spirit… We often ourselves do what displeases God in other ways but would want him to punish some other person for the wrong they did in other ways. Fighting and quarrelling will make it worse. No one deserves to be cheated on. NOTE: same applies if the wife is cheating,” he wrote.
Infidelity (synonyms include cheating, straying, adultery, being unfaithful, two-timing, or having an affair) is a violation of a couple’s emotional and/or s€xual exclusivity that commonly results in feelings of anger, s€xual jealousy, and rivalry.
Infidelity can have lasting impacts on partners and children the couple may have. Grief, brain changes, behaviors down the road, and mental health conditions such as anxiety, chronic stress, and depression can result. Some families have been able to move past infidelity with time and therapy. This is what cheating does to a marriage.