Woman, stop waiting to be loved when you can lead the way by loving yourself unconditionally.
There is so much more to life than finding someone who will want you or being sad over someone who doesn’t.
You have a lot of time to discover yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way.
If it happens, fine. If it doesn’t, don’t beat yourself up or settle for less than you deserve just to be in a relationship.
Your life doesn’t need to be empty and painful. You need to fill yourself up with love. You have to become a whole being on your own.
Go on an adventure, dress up for yourself, give to others, help the less privileged, smile even when you feel like crying. Live life on your own terms. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. Life is beautiful.
But you need to stop doing these ten things to yourself:
Stop living by someone else’s standard. Your journey is different from theirs. Everybody won’t understand your life. You don’t have to explain yourself to those who are not relevant to your life.
Stop lying to yourself. Be yourself and don’t change who you are just to please others. Don’t betray your dreams for the sake of fitting in.
Stop blaming yourself for your mistakes. Pick up the pieces of your life and move on. Your mistakes mean that you are trying to be better than you were.
Stop denying your potential. You matter and you have what it takes to be successful. If you don’t know your value, you will never get what you are worth.
Stop leaving your dreams behind. If you have a burning desire to do something, just start. Procrastination is an enemy of progress. If you want a better future, you must be willing to work to make it a reality.
Stop feeling like you are not good enough. You have gifts and talents that will benefit mankind. Work with what you have. You will be surprised to know how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end.
Stop doing things you don’t like just to prove a point to others. If you can’t stand it, don’t take it. One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else.
Stop missing opportunities. Keep improving yourself. Don’t let any opportunity to learn pass you by. Motivation is what gets you started, but habit is what keeps you going.
Stop focusing on your weaknesses. No human being is perfect. Master your weaknesses and amplify your strengths. You can’t win in life if you are losing in your mind. Win the battle in your mind first and you will be victorious.
Stop living in the past. The past is gone. Focus on the present. Improve yourself and look towards the future with optimism. The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.
