Dear married women, leave side chics alone

Dear married Nigerian women, stop fighting Side Chics.

Stop blaming Side Chics for the irresponsible actions of your husbands.

I pray you don’t meet the one that will kill you one day and your randy husband will move on with his life clutching another one like nothing happened.

Women, face your husbands and demand fidelity from them like they demand from you.

Those side Chics you are threatening with sudden deaths and acid bathe are not your problem.

Your problem sleeps on the same bed with you.

Your husband is the one who goes after these side chics.

I heard the story of a woman in Port Harcourt who went in the company of her friend to beat up her husband’s mistress because she was diverting his attention away from her and their children.

There have been instances of women calling out side chics to leave their husbands alone on social media.

It is funny that these women leave their erring husbands, the ones who made vows to be faithful on the altar and go after strangers who don’t owe them loyalty. I don’t understand this. These side chics didn’t enter into the marriage covenant with you. Choose your battles wisely.

Someone told me that if a woman loves her husband that she would fight other women to leave him alone. I asked him if the men were forced into relationships with side chics or they have selective amnesia that they were married that will make their wives start fighting for them. He couldn’t answer my question.

By now, you must have watched the video of a woman calling out her husband’s side chic on Facebook. You must have taken time, used up your data in this biting economy to watch this video to the end. You must have pitied this woman who sounded hurt, pained and hopeless about her husband’s act of Father Christmas to a young girl.

You must have seen the picture of this girl and asked yourself what the man in question was looking for. You may have also justified his actions because in this society, women are always told that men are polygamous in nature, and a man can have as many women as possible as long as he can take care of them.

I know you must have also silently blamed the woman for not keeping her marriage and preventing her husband from being snatched. I wonder if these grown men are Gucci handbags to be stolen at will. I read many comments of people telling the woman to fast and pray for her husband because the devil was attacking her marriage and I laughed.

Dear wives association of Nigeria, side chics owe you anything. They didn’t say marriage vows with you. Don’t expect them to say no to your randy husbands that can’t keep their rods in one place. If your husband has a side chic, face him and deal with him. He’s the one breaking your marriage vows. You have no business with his many side chics.