Dating and marrying the wrong man is one of the worst mistakes a woman can make. It is like walking into fire with your eyes open.
Young lady, how do you know if you are dating the right person? There are signs you are dating the right person and there are also warning signs you are dating the wrong person.
You have to tell yourself the truth if you want to truly find out if a man is wrong for you and won’t make a good boyfriend or a good husband.
Do you often ask, ‘Is he the wrong man for me?’ or ‘am I with the wrong person’ because of the way he treats you and how he behaves? Do you feel anxious around him and can’t be free with him? He may be wrong for you.
Here are 10 signs he is the wrong man for you. Take note of these signs.
He’s controlling
If he tells you who to call and who not to call, what to wear and what not to wear, where to go and where you dare not go, you are with a wrong guy.
He doesn’t keep his word
One of the signs you are with the right person is that he is committed to you and keeps his word. When the guy you are dating doesn’t keep his word, he is not right for you. No matter how much you love him, let him go.
He makes you feel inferior
If he constantly brings you down with negative words and makes you begin to doubt yourself, he’s not good for you. If you feel uncomfortable with him, let him go.
He doesn’t listen to you
If he is not present when you both are together, that’s a red flag. He is distracted majority of the time by other things or people when you are together.
He doesn’t have time for you
If the man you are dating doesn’t seem to have time to be with you, why are you wasting your time holding on to him? You need to dump him and move on.
He lacks ambition and drive
It is important that the guy you are dating shares the same enthusiasm for life as you do. If he doesn’t have the enthusiasm to act upon things he loves, that’s not a good sign.
He doesn’t take you to meet his friends
If you have been dating a guy for a while and every time he is supposed to meet your friends, he bails or gives excuses about you meeting his friends, that is a red flag. He is the wrong man for you.
He is not kind to service staff
If your guy feels on top of the world by disrespecting service staff, how do you think he would treat you differently? If he treats servants poorly, he is not a good man for you.
He keeps you away from his social media accounts
When a man who supposedly is dating you doesn’t want to make you part of his social media presence, you are not his priority. You shouldn’t ignore this sign. He doesn’t want people to know you both are dating.
He is a show off
If the guy you are dating constantly shows off what he has, what he does, and who he knows, you are not number one in his life. Just know this and do something about it.
