Sometimes, you let go of people without even noticing

In life, sometimes, you let go of people without even noticing. You suddenly discover that you haven’t been in contact with someone who was once very close to you and you don’t really miss them.

It’s sad but it happens a lot. You stop looking forward to hearing from them. You stop thinking about them. You stop waiting for them to reply you or call you back.

You stop allowing them to take up so much space in your life. You think about the good times you had with them and sigh because everything is now in the past. Does this make you a bad person? No.

We outgrow people. We outgrow relationships. This happens when you are the only one who keeps giving love, time and attention to the other person. You move on, you go about your day without worrying about them or wondering whether they are okay.

You stop expecting them to come back with an apology. You accept that they are no longer a part of your life. You just let them go without fights, drama or long talks. You silly let go.

If someone comes into your life and has a positive impact on you but for some reason they can’t stay, don’t mourn for too long.

Be thankful that your paths crossed and somehow, they made you happy even if it was just for a short while. In life, things happen and people change. Don’t forget that.

People come into your life and people go. Some come back but others don’t but that’s okay. And just because one person leaves doesn’t mean you have to forget other people who are standing by your side because they love and care for you.

Continue to appreciate what you have with people still present in your life and smile at the good memories of the people who left. Life happens, we must learn to move forward with a positive mindset.

Know that in life, you might just outgrow some people and your relationship with them might end without any reason. There might not be any explanations either.

When this happens, respect the shift and honour the growth. You have to understand that not all roots can stay planted in the sane soil forever.

Sometimes, you let go of people without noticing. It doesn’t mean you are a bad person or that they are bad too, sometimes you just outgrow someone and a relationship.