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10 good reasons you should believe in yourself


Do you find it hard to believe in yourself? Do you doubt yourself sometimes? Do you feel you are not good enough? Do you feel you are lagging behind your mates in life?

Do you feel insecure about your body and abilities? Do you feel alone sometimes? Do you feel unworthy of love and support from others?

I want to tell you that you are not alone. At one point in life, you will doubt yourself especially when things don’t go as planned.  You must know that you are what you believe yourself to be. The power of believing in yourself strengthens you to do better and overcome failures.

What happens when you believe in yourself? You overcome obstacles on your path and make your dreams come true. You break down walls meant to keep you out.

Dear Nigerian woman, you may be the only person left who believes in you but it is enough. You are enough. You have everything it takes to live a successful life.

Believe in yourself even when others don’t.  It takes just one star to pierce the universe of darkness. Never give up. You don’t need anyone’s approval or affection to be good enough.

When someone rejects you, it says a lot about who they are and it doesn’t determine your worth. Don’t allow their rejection leave you depressed.

When people judge you, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you, it reveals their insecurities and limitations. Shake off their judgments.


You don’t have to internalize other people’s opinion of you. Your worth isn’t determined by other people’s acceptance and opinions. Focus on yourself.

You are alive and therefore, you matter. You must hold on to the truth that you deserve every good thing life has to offer. Let go of people who think otherwise.

10 good reasons you should believe in yourself

Why is it important to believe in yourself and how do you start to believe in yourself? Here are 10 benefits of believing in yourself:

1. You become positive about life
The more you believe in yourself, the more positive life becomes. It doesn’t mean there are no challenges but you don’t allow them bring you down.

2. You scale through difficult times
Believe in yourself gives you the strength to scale through tough times in life. It gives you the strength to get through anything.

3. You build your self confidence

When a woman believes in herself, she oozes self confidence. If you believe in yourself, you build your self confidence.

4. You will enjoy better relationships 
You will enjoy better relationships when you believe in yourself. You won’t be trying desperately to please other people.

5. You no longer have the fear of failure
When you have self confidence, you wont beat yourself up about your failures. You will learn from your mistakes and be a better woman.

6. You inspire others to live better

When you no longer exhibit self doubt, you inspire other people with your attitude to life. Your confidence will attract other people and encourage them to live better.

7. If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody will?

If you don’t encourage yourself, who will? If you don’t pick yourself up, who will do that for you? If you don’t believe in yourself, how will others support you?

8. You overcome negative thoughts and feelings

By feeding your brain with positive thinking and positive affirmations, you create no space for negative thoughts and feelings. And even when they crop up from time to time, your confident attitude beats them.

9. You easily trash people’s unwanted opinions

There will always be people who try to bring you down by telling you that what you want to accomplish is impossible but when you believe in yourself, you can easily ignore their words and focus on getting what you want.

10. You learn to trust your instincts

Believing in yourself teaches you to trust your instincts and follow your heart. When you keep trusting your instincts, you will get it right without having to question yourself as you go through life.

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  2. Ebube says

    thank you

    1. Kate says

      You are welcome my darling.

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