Wana Udobang says that dating in Nigeria seems to be one of the most stressful things. The levels of performance through all the stages chalé.
She asked: Also what is this thing about acting like you don’t like someone when you do because expressing how much you care makes you less desirable?
She advised people to embrace ease always.
Dating in Nigeria is hard because a lot of men and women are not true to themselves and are not honest with one another. It’s like people get attracted to each other, decide to meet and instead of getting to know each other, they act out the scripts society gave them.
If you can’t be your true self around someone you are dating, why are you with that person? If you like someone and pretend not to like them so that you are not called cheap and easy, you are lying to yourself and your date.
Dating in Nigeria is hard because there are too many unwritten rules for men and women to follow. These rules ruin good dates and leave people confused. People tell others how to act on dates forgetting that we are all different people.
What do Nigerian man want in a woman?
Nigerian men love women who are are self-confident and happy with themselves. These men don’t like an insecure woman who causes drama all the time even though some of these men will provoke a secure woman to lose her cool sometimes.
Nigerian men love women who pretend to be dumb so that they can appear intelligent and take charge of everything. They love submissive women who will say yes to everything they say, agree with their decisions and not question them.
This is why many Nigerian men find it hard to date feminists and women who are not scared to express themselves. They see women who show their brilliance, contribute intelligently to conversations and have their own money as proud and unsubmissive women.
When it comes to dating, action speaks louder than voice. If a Nigerian man truly loves you, his actions will reveal it. You can observe his actions and behaviour towards you and pay little attention to the words of his mouth. He will treat you like a Queen and look out for your well being. This is how to know if a Nigerian guy likes you.
