relationships

A lot of people are users. They go through life using people. These humans think they are wise and other people don’t have sense. They keep taking from people without giving back. I can’t stand such people. They should be far from good…

In Nigeria, there are certain expectations placed on women when it comes to relationships and marriages and when you don't live up to these expectations, you are judged harshly. Women are told that the most important achievement in their…

I laugh whenever women say that Nigerian men are confused. These men are never confused. They always know what they want at different stages of their lives and they chase it until they get it. Nigerian men are not confused about the kind…

Being an intentional person means everything you do is done with a clear purpose and focus. When you become intentional, you focus your time and energy on your strengths, and the good things in your life, and don't let fear hold you…

Nollywood actress Lota Chukwu has shared a very important thing she is learning about relationships and expects people to take note of it. Lota Chukwu wrote: "One thing I'm learning about relationships is: even if you're a self…

In relationships and marriages, when someone repeatedly uses words to demean, frighten, or control someone, it’s considered verbal abuse. You are likely to hear about verbal abuse in the context of a romantic relationship but it can also…

Many times, you hear women making excuses for men treating them badly and you wonder why they do so. You see being beaten, humiliated, stripped, disgraced and abused by the men in their lives and they still tell it is not the fault of these…

Wana Udobang says that dating in Nigeria seems to be one of the most stressful things. The levels of performance through all the stages chalé. She asked: Also what is this thing about acting like you don't like someone when you do…

Dear Nigerian woman, if you don't love yourself, you will end up with people who don't love you either. Some people will prey on you and your desire to be loved. They will play games with your heart because you are desperate for love.…

Dear Nigerian women, quit making excuses for inconsistent men. You are not a dumping ground for unserious men's mind games. A man claims to love you but he blows hot and cold at the same time and you keep telling yourself that he's like…