Why do some ladies resort to curses when guys break up with them?
Why do some ladies resort to curses when guys break up with them? Why is there a natural impulse to curse a guy you were dating once he says he’s no longer interested in you and suggests you both go your separate ways?
I have been thinking about this for a while now after witnessing a heartbreaking scene close to my house yesterday.
This lady was holding her breasts and cursing a guy who stood nearby almost in tears and she was doing this at the top of her voice.
Some of the things she said were:
May no child of yours suck the breasts of any woman in this life!
May there never be the cry of a baby in your house!
May you suffer heartbreaks like the one I’m suffering now till you die!
It will never be well with you!
For the many times I have done abortions for you, may your wife continue to lose her unborn children.
Those were heavy curses.
People were begging her to stop. Her ex was begging her to stop but she continued repeating different curses.
I felt bad for the guy and the woman he’s going to marry.
It is sad that the lady was not only cursing the person who hurt her terribly but she is also cursing an innocent woman who will later come into the picture.
I felt bad for her. It was sad watching her say those things in public but I knew something must have warranted her painful outbursts.
I have heard some women lay curses on men who hurt them and things started going bad for these men.
But I want to ask why ladies do this. Does it make the pain of breakup lighter? Does it help one deal it? Does it help these ladies feel better? Why do some ladies resort to curses when guys break up with them?
I need honest, individual responses. I want to understand why ladies do this and how it helps them after the breakup.