Actress and singer, Bukunmi Oluwasina, is of the opinion that it is very hard to find a man who is 100 per cent faithful.
Speaking about the qualities she looks out for in a man, she said, “I like a man that has the fear of God. A man who has the wisdom of God in him will know how to raise a family. I also want a man that won’t give up on me no matter what, because I can be complicated.
I believe love is love when it never ends. I don’t know if I can get a faithful man because we all are human beings. It is very hard to get someone who is 100 per cent faithful. Most people don’t know this, so when someone cheats on them, they leave the relationship.
What gives you the impression that the next person you would date won’t cheat on you? We are not angels, nor are we saints. I also look out for a man who can forgive because there is no love without forgiveness.”
Women like these make me want to puke. I don’t understand how someone can justify cheating with the silly excuse of not knowing whether the next man will be faithful.
If you are cool with being with a cheating man, state it as your opinion and say you don’t have an issue with being cheated on. Don’t claim true love is about forgiving a cheating man.
What about sexually transmitted diseases? What about the disrespect that comes with being lied to and cheated on?
What about the emotional trauma that comes with being cheated on? Who in their right senses wants to live the rest of their lives like that?
If you want to be with a cheat, it’s your choice, just don’t make it a standard for other women.