Dear Nigerian women, stop living fake lives. Stop lying to yourselves.
Stop doing things to please people who don’t care about you.
Stop trying to please society because no matter what you do, it will never be enough.
Living a fake life is lying to yourself and others because you are making so much effort to portray who you are not.
Fake women try to please everyone and work hard to be everything to the different people in their lives.
If you are busy trying to please everyone, you are being fake to other people.
Who are you? What do you want for yourself? What kind of life do you want to live? What do you want to be remembered for when you leave this world?
I have heard some women say that living a fake life is not bad because they are trying to catch up with others.
If you spend your years trying to catch up with others and live their lives, when do you get to live your own life?
Ladies, be brave enough to take away the masks that hide who you are. It’s time to meet the real you, who you are, and what you stand for.
Keeping up the facade and false appearances will cost you too much. Trying to hold it all together to look a certain way will hold you down for years.
When you are not living in authenticity, you lose your self confidence, self worth and integrity. You are disconnected from your feminine power when you live a lie.
It takes a lot of energy to live a fake life. It takes a lot of energy to be somebody that you are not.
The best thing you can do is break the walls you built around who you really are. You need to shatter and destroy the mask that hides your authentic self.
Get transparent and true with yourself and show the world the real you. Surrender to the truth of who you really are and live your life to the full.
Living a fake life will cost you more than be true to yourself and living your best life.
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