“How do I chase my husband’s mistress away from my matrimonial home, I want to save my marriage?”
A woman said she’s ‘happily’married to a man. They have two boys and they have been married for five years.
She said her husband confessed to her that he impregnated a 22-year-old lady and she was threatening him with aborting the baby.
According to her, her husband brought the lady to live with them because she insisted and she’s now ordering her around in her own home.
This woman who claims she’s a quiet woman said her husband suggested she relocate to the village with their boys and he will be sending them money every week as well as coming to visit them.
When she refused, he be@t her up and told her that she has become stubborn and he does want her to trouble his pregnant mistress.
Madam is asking strangers and elders on one Facebook page how to save her marriage and throw the girl out her home.
The funny thing is that almost every woman on that post is claiming that the man is under a spell.
“Don’t let that daughter of the devil destroy your home. Start fasting and prayers immediately.”
“Your husband is under a spell. You have to pray for God to destroy the love between him and that lady.”
“It’s not ordinary. Now is the time to go spiritual. Fast and pray fervently.”
“You shouldn’t allow any woman take over your home. You should use midnight prayers to send her packing.”
“Your husband is not in his right senses. She had locked him up somewhere. You have to stand in the gap and fight on his behalf.”
“Cry to God to deliver your husband from the shackles of the enemy. He’s under a spell. Na juju be dis.” Lol.
The way people make excuses for Nigerian men when they misbehave is so annoying. On the flip side, they won’t say the same thing when a woman does the same thing. It is only men who are excused for bad behaviour.
A man chose another woman over his wife, impregnated her, brought her into his home, beat his wife for refusing to relocate to the village with their children and somehow, the victim is supposed to fast and pray for him to supposedly come back to his senses.
This is how humans ignore people who hurt others and keep hounding their victims with the forgive and forget gospel. They keep forcing people to overlook the pain others caused them.
The annoying thing is that the woman in this story is not asking for how to better her life, make money to take care of herself and her boys but she seeking for advice on how to save a dead marriage.
