A Nigerian woman has taken to Facebook to seek advice after she found a female underwear in her husband’s car.
The woman posted a picture of the pant and said she doesn’t know if she should confront her husband to know how who owns the panties or report him to his family.
She wrote:
“Please advise me. See what I found inside my husband’s car. I don’t know if I should confront him or I should show his brothers and sisters.”
Speak up, confront him, do not blame yourself, quit being a doormat. Every woman deserves love, respect and loyalty, not being cheated on. Also, remember that your ability to deal with the pain of a cheating husband and make your relationship work again also depends on his reactions to the situation. This is how you handle a husband who is cheating.
Having an emotional and sexual relationship with somebody else was rated the most severe and the least forgivable act of infidelity. Using online services such as live sex shows and going to a strip club, on the other hand, were considered the least severe and most forgivable acts. This kind of cheating is unforgivable.
Experts agree that the only reason to stay with a cheating spouse is if he or she is deeply and genuinely sorry for the betrayal and willing to work for your forgiveness. This means they show they understand the pain you went through after learning about the affair.
It’s a good idea to take a break if your partner cheated on you and you need time to make a decision. Cheating, emotionally or physically, is a huge deal breaker for a lot of people. But often, it’s very hard to leave your boyfriend or girlfriend after they cheated.
What are the long-term effects of being cheated on? If you’ve been cheated on, it may take a long time to heal. It can cause you chronic anxiety, post-traumatic stress, depression, and mistrust of others for a long time after the event.
