What kind of friend are you to those you claim you love?

What kind of friend are you to your friends?

Many of us are quick to talk about bad friends and narrate our experiences with these so called bad friends to others without blinking.

But have you asked yourself why you keep attracting such toxic friends into your life.

Woman, what kind of friend are you?

If you cannot answer this question truthfully, then you shouldn’t be talking about bad friends at all.

Do you know the characteristics of a bad friend? If your friend is always competing with you, they are bad for you.

Kind-of-friends

There are types of bad friends women should avoid. You have to learn how to tell if you have a bad friend. There will be signs. You shouldn’t overlook them.

There are signs your friend is a user but you just wave it aside because you love the way they tell you what you want to hear.

If you are an opportunist friend, one who loves using your friend’s things and connections, you are not a good friend.

If you are a friend who says yes to your friends without calling them to order when they do something wrong, you are not a good friend.

If you cannot stand your friend being successful without plotting to bring them down, you don’t know what friendship means.

If you are a self centered friend who is always talking about yourself without listening to your friend, you are not a good friend.

If you are a friend who smiles before your friend’s face, but when around other people, you make them feel small by continuously putting them down verbally, you are a bad friend.

If you are a friend who ignores your friend before other people but professes undying love and loyalty to them in private, you are not a good friend.

If you are a friend who wants to know everything about your friend but you hide your own issues from them, you are a bad friend. You shouldn’t be talking about bad friends when you are bad yourself.

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman.
I don’t conform to societal stereotypes.
I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world.
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1 Response

  1. Ebube says:

    Good friends are really hard to find. But when you find just one loyal friend, you need nothing else.
    Beautifully written:)

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