Dear woman, you don’t have to beg anyone to stay in your life

Dear woman, you don’t have to beg anyone to stay with you. You don’t have to beg someone to come back into your life either.

When I see women desperately try to keep men in their lives, I pity them. You shouldn’t be begging for love. Love should be mutual.

There’s nothing good about begging to be loved and cherished by someone you are willing to take bullets for.

There’s nothing as emotionally draining and degrading as begging a man who doesn’t want to be with you to stay in your life.

Dear woman don’t beg anyone to stay in your life

You don’t have to beg for love. You don’t have to beg to be loved. If what you are feeling for the other person is not reciprocated, leave.

You don’t have to beg someone to be with you. They are not your oxygen. You have your whole life ahead of you. Learn to let go of unrequited love.

You don’t have to beg for attention, affection and commitment. Don’t beg someone to come back to you or stay with you. Learn to love yourself above any relationship.

Begging someone who doesn’t want to be in your life is damaging your self-worth and hurting yourself.

When you keep that up, you will definitely lose your self-worth, your self-esteem and your confidence when you should be in a mutual relationship.

If someone doesn’t willingly give you the love, attention and affection you give to them, they are not worth your time. Leave that person alone.

No one is worth such wasted efforts. Stop groveling and begging for love from anyone who doesn’t want to be with you.

You put yourself through a lot of stress and emotional distress when you are begging someone to be in your life.

And even when the person agrees to be in your life, you will suffer in the relationship because you are the only one trying to make it work.

 

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman. I don't conform to societal stereotypes. I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world. Engage and be awakened.

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