It is sad that some women have refused to learn from other women’s mistakes.
It is funny that when you tell women not to fight over men, they will start claiming that you are teaching women to be cold and heartless.
As a woman, this society expects you to fight with different women over your man. If you do this, you will prove that you love him and you are willing to do anything to keep him. Long hiss.
Nobody says anything about a man who disrespects his woman by going into relationships with other women. People see a man cheating on his woman as normal behaviour.
It is sad that women also believe and practice this nonsense just because they want to be called good women by members of this patriarchal and hypocritical society.
Women are expected to fight other women for their men, cook to keep men by their sides, clean the dirty apartments of their men to prove they are worthy to be wifed.
Women are expected to give up who they are just to please their men. They are expected to give up their female friendships because of men and also give up their families and dreams so that they can be virtuous women.
This is terrible. Women who have refused to learn from the mistakes of others women end up in worse situations. Many women are useless to themselves today because of the men they allowed into their lives.
You don’t fight to keep a man. You don’t give up who you are for a man. You don’t give up your friends for a man. You don’t give up your family for a man. You don’t give up on your dreams for a man.
Any man who demands to give up any of these is an abusive and manipulative man and such a man will destroy you in the long run. Stop making excuses for abusive and manipulative men.
Learn to say no to emotional abuse. Learn to say no to demeaning yourself. Learn to say no to being pitched against other women. Learn to be bold and outspoken. Learn to stand up for yourself.
If you don’t want to end up worse than the women who have gone ahead of you, learn from other women’s mistakes and do better. Refuse to be abused. Abuse is not love.
